Friends that don't want to play games with you
It probably sounds odd, you have a friend that has the same game as you for the same console or for pc and yet he or she doesn't want to play it with you. That kind of gets you thinking, is there something wrong with you or is this person not really your friend?
Your friend is not your friend?
It's strange when someone that you consider as a friend is acting in such a way that he or she doesn't want to play games with you. Now I'm not saying that just because you play the same games that it means you have to play together, but if there is a multiplayer mode in the game then why wouldn't you want to team up every now and then? You don't have to play together all the time but never? That seems a bit weird to me, especially if this person is supposed to be your friend. So how good of a friend is this person? Look I understand that some people are busy and don't always feel like playing games with other people, but never is never and I just don't see how someone can justify that and still call himself or herself a friend. So maybe this person isn't really a friend, sure you might like to talk to this person and maybe you get along but it's apparently not someone that nice if he or she can't be bothered to play a game with you. If you play games on different consoles or just don't play the same games then that makes sense, but when you play the same game for the same console at the same time then I don't see a good reason why you can never play that game together. Unless this friend doesn't really like you that much, I mean then it would make sense why he or she doesn't want to play games with you.
Not playing games together doesn't have to mean a thing?
It would be a bit odd when your friendship is only build on you playing games together. Of course there is more to a friendship but playing games together could just be something that could unite you and yet some people let that be something that divides you. But there are sometimes reasons why some people don't want to play games with you, sometimes these people just don't like to play games with others which has nothing to do with you personally. So you shouldn't be too much offended by someone if he or she doesn't want to play games with you. Maybe something has happened why this person prefers to play games on his or her own. It could also be that your friend is a busy person, he or she only has 30 minutes to play and doesn't think it's worth teaming up with a friend. But there are also people that just really want to play games on their own, even in multiplayer they prefer the silence and just go their own way. Just because you don't understand that it doesn't make him or her a bad friend. I guess what I'm trying to say that it's important that you talk, if something bothers you then talk about it. Maybe he or she has a good reason why he or she doesn't want to play games with you. It doesn't automaticly make him or her a bad friend. But if you talk with this person then you can find out what's going on, you could also find out if this person is a bad friend because if this person doesn't have a reason why he or she doesn't want to play games with you then that will most likely mean they just don't like you that much. At least that's something I would assume if someone never wants to play games with me while we both play the same games and we're supposed to be friends, but if this person can't tell me why he or she doesn't want to play games with me then how could I not think that this person probably doesn't like me that much. People don't have to tell me everything but if they just ignore you then that is a pretty good sign that this person isn't really a friend.
Your friend is not your friend?
It's strange when someone that you consider as a friend is acting in such a way that he or she doesn't want to play games with you. Now I'm not saying that just because you play the same games that it means you have to play together, but if there is a multiplayer mode in the game then why wouldn't you want to team up every now and then? You don't have to play together all the time but never? That seems a bit weird to me, especially if this person is supposed to be your friend. So how good of a friend is this person? Look I understand that some people are busy and don't always feel like playing games with other people, but never is never and I just don't see how someone can justify that and still call himself or herself a friend. So maybe this person isn't really a friend, sure you might like to talk to this person and maybe you get along but it's apparently not someone that nice if he or she can't be bothered to play a game with you. If you play games on different consoles or just don't play the same games then that makes sense, but when you play the same game for the same console at the same time then I don't see a good reason why you can never play that game together. Unless this friend doesn't really like you that much, I mean then it would make sense why he or she doesn't want to play games with you.
Not playing games together doesn't have to mean a thing?
It would be a bit odd when your friendship is only build on you playing games together. Of course there is more to a friendship but playing games together could just be something that could unite you and yet some people let that be something that divides you. But there are sometimes reasons why some people don't want to play games with you, sometimes these people just don't like to play games with others which has nothing to do with you personally. So you shouldn't be too much offended by someone if he or she doesn't want to play games with you. Maybe something has happened why this person prefers to play games on his or her own. It could also be that your friend is a busy person, he or she only has 30 minutes to play and doesn't think it's worth teaming up with a friend. But there are also people that just really want to play games on their own, even in multiplayer they prefer the silence and just go their own way. Just because you don't understand that it doesn't make him or her a bad friend. I guess what I'm trying to say that it's important that you talk, if something bothers you then talk about it. Maybe he or she has a good reason why he or she doesn't want to play games with you. It doesn't automaticly make him or her a bad friend. But if you talk with this person then you can find out what's going on, you could also find out if this person is a bad friend because if this person doesn't have a reason why he or she doesn't want to play games with you then that will most likely mean they just don't like you that much. At least that's something I would assume if someone never wants to play games with me while we both play the same games and we're supposed to be friends, but if this person can't tell me why he or she doesn't want to play games with me then how could I not think that this person probably doesn't like me that much. People don't have to tell me everything but if they just ignore you then that is a pretty good sign that this person isn't really a friend.
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