Sinful Sunday: You against the world?
Do you ever have the feeling like it's you against the world? Perhaps you have to be a big pessimist for that or just have a streak of bad luck but it does happen sometimes to me. No matter what you do or what you say it all seems to work against you. Every game you play sucks, every conversation is awkward or just lame and nothing goes right the entire day. It's one of those days you wish you stayed in bed, but you have to move forward and make the most of the day. Impossible or not?
Make the most of your day?
It seems silly but sometimes you have bad days and nothing seems to go right, so instead of enduring that with suffering you could try to make the most of the day. For example do something positive, something that you know that makes you happy. Maybe eat something that makes you happy, watch a movie that makes you happy or spend time with family and friends that make you happy. I'm not saying that this is a guarantee for succes but it beats sulking in a corner! If you play a game and things go wrong constantly, I think we've all had these days, then it's smart to stop playing that game for some time. Instead of keep bashing your head against the wall and expect it to open up you could be smart and use your brain and use the door instead. What I mean with this is that no matter how much you want to play a game, sometimes it's better to do something else and it doesn't help if you keep trying and failing with that game. It will only make you unhappy and I think that's the opposite of what you would want from playing games.
Is it really you against the world?
Eventhough there can be a lot of assholes on the world I don't think everyone is bad, maybe in some games it does feel as if everyone is against you. For example in competitive multiplayer you will meet some of the less friendly gamers and they can make your life miserable. Wether you have succes or not some people will be an asshole to you, sometimes for no real reason at all. So if you're feeling a bit depressed or just not so good then it might be a smart idea to avoid competitive multiplayer games. At least if you're playing on your own, maybe with friends things are a bit better but on your own things will often go from bad to worse. It's smarter to play games with friends or dive into a fun single player game to feel a bit better. Maybe some people like this you against the world feeling but some people really don't like it, so avoid nasty situations and stick to positive things in your life. Hopefully that makes you feel better and drives away the negative thoughts and feelings.
Make the most of your day?
It seems silly but sometimes you have bad days and nothing seems to go right, so instead of enduring that with suffering you could try to make the most of the day. For example do something positive, something that you know that makes you happy. Maybe eat something that makes you happy, watch a movie that makes you happy or spend time with family and friends that make you happy. I'm not saying that this is a guarantee for succes but it beats sulking in a corner! If you play a game and things go wrong constantly, I think we've all had these days, then it's smart to stop playing that game for some time. Instead of keep bashing your head against the wall and expect it to open up you could be smart and use your brain and use the door instead. What I mean with this is that no matter how much you want to play a game, sometimes it's better to do something else and it doesn't help if you keep trying and failing with that game. It will only make you unhappy and I think that's the opposite of what you would want from playing games.
Is it really you against the world?
Eventhough there can be a lot of assholes on the world I don't think everyone is bad, maybe in some games it does feel as if everyone is against you. For example in competitive multiplayer you will meet some of the less friendly gamers and they can make your life miserable. Wether you have succes or not some people will be an asshole to you, sometimes for no real reason at all. So if you're feeling a bit depressed or just not so good then it might be a smart idea to avoid competitive multiplayer games. At least if you're playing on your own, maybe with friends things are a bit better but on your own things will often go from bad to worse. It's smarter to play games with friends or dive into a fun single player game to feel a bit better. Maybe some people like this you against the world feeling but some people really don't like it, so avoid nasty situations and stick to positive things in your life. Hopefully that makes you feel better and drives away the negative thoughts and feelings.
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