Sinful Sunday: Angry at yourself or others?
I think we all have moments that we're mad, but why are we mad and is it always the fault of others? It's easy to say that it's the fault of others because why would you take the blame when it's so much easier to blame others. What's really surprising is that some people are actually in disbelief, they can't imagine that they are actually mad at themselves and will just spurt out a whole load of insults and words that make absolutely no sense at all. So the question is, are you mad at yourself or others?
It's not my fault?
Getting angry isn't something you're proud of, I think a lot of people are ashamed of their angry outbursts. So if you make it so that you get angry because of someone else then that means it's not your fault you're angry, it's the fault of someone else and so your outburst is justified. At least that's what you tell others and yourself, but is that really true? Of course there are assholes that try to make you mad, wether you play a game or you go out and someone is looking for a fight. There are situations that it's absolutely not your fault that you got upset, because wouldn't you get mad if someone kept harassing you and saying bad things to you? Maybe you can ignore that and keep your head cool, unfortunately not everyone has that ability.
Why would someone want to make others mad?
That's one of these douchebag things people like to do these days. Someone people like to trash things on camera and then upload that to youtube, but there are also people that like to make others mad and then record their anger on camera and upload that to youtube. I know it's sad but these people exist and they will try to annoy people as much as they can with their bullshit. Which is why I advice to ignore people online when they behave like douchebags, it's most likely some sad attempt of some loser trying to make a 'funny' video of other people getting mad. Unfortunately there are also people out there that are just assholes, they enjoy making the lives of other people miserable because their own life sucks and so others should feel just as miserable as they feel. Once again it's best to ignore these people, they never find happiness if they continue with their sad behaviour and there's nothing you can do to change that. If they want to find happiness then they will have to change things in their life, something that's up to them and not to you.
It's not my fault?
Getting angry isn't something you're proud of, I think a lot of people are ashamed of their angry outbursts. So if you make it so that you get angry because of someone else then that means it's not your fault you're angry, it's the fault of someone else and so your outburst is justified. At least that's what you tell others and yourself, but is that really true? Of course there are assholes that try to make you mad, wether you play a game or you go out and someone is looking for a fight. There are situations that it's absolutely not your fault that you got upset, because wouldn't you get mad if someone kept harassing you and saying bad things to you? Maybe you can ignore that and keep your head cool, unfortunately not everyone has that ability.
Why would someone want to make others mad?
That's one of these douchebag things people like to do these days. Someone people like to trash things on camera and then upload that to youtube, but there are also people that like to make others mad and then record their anger on camera and upload that to youtube. I know it's sad but these people exist and they will try to annoy people as much as they can with their bullshit. Which is why I advice to ignore people online when they behave like douchebags, it's most likely some sad attempt of some loser trying to make a 'funny' video of other people getting mad. Unfortunately there are also people out there that are just assholes, they enjoy making the lives of other people miserable because their own life sucks and so others should feel just as miserable as they feel. Once again it's best to ignore these people, they never find happiness if they continue with their sad behaviour and there's nothing you can do to change that. If they want to find happiness then they will have to change things in their life, something that's up to them and not to you.
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